Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Time to get more fit?





January is when lots of people resolve to start that diet and stick to it. Really. It's going to take a certain amount of preparation and will power, but you can lose those 10 pounds (or 50) if you put your mind to it. To help yourself shed weight, follow some of this advice:  


1.) Turn off the t.v. sitting in front of the  television when you eat can result in you consuming up to 40 percent tree more calories than you would otherwise. Even if your dining alone, eat at the table without distractions.  
2) Drink lots of water. Water fills you up and its good for  you. If plain is to blah for you then try adding lemon or lime in order to give it some flavor. or mix up a pitcher of herbal iced tea.
3) Add instead of subtraction. don't obsess over what you can't eat. rather work on adding more fruits vegetables and other nutrition food to you will stay full without conaiming calorie and fat laden snacks
4) Limit portion size. you can still eat some of your fab foods as long as you practice low moderation. educate yourself  on what is real  "serving size" is its usually smaller than you think supplement your main sources with salads vegetable fruit and nuts all in moderation
5) Take your time don't rush through meals. Eating too fast can leave you feeling still hungry  when you're finished, tempting you to eat more than you really need. Slow down set your utensils down  between each bite and enjoy the flavors of what youre eating.                                                           Hope this has helped!

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Eliminating Unnecessary Stressors

 stress
It has been said that, "The difference between a smart person and a wise one is that a smart person can work his or her way out of a difficulty that a wise person will not get into in the first place." This blog post should somewhat help you to be wise, that is to prevent stress in the first place-but recognizing that stress is unavoidable- it can also help you to be smart that is, cope better with the stress you have encountered.

    Let's first gain some knowledge on Stress. Look at the different definitions and theories...

What Is Stress? 

 

Some vocabulary...

General definition- A psychological and physical response of the body that occurs whenever we must adapt to changing conditions, whether those conditions be real or perceived, positive or negative. Although everyone has stress in their lives, people respond to stress in different ways. Some people seem to be severely affected while others seem calm, cool, and collected all the time. 


Regardless, we all have it.
          So, There are different kinds of stress. Keep in note, There are the bad stressors and the good stressors. There is 'eustress', when good things to which one has to adapt and that could lead to a stress reaction. Like a job promotion. Then there is the bad stressor, 'distress', when bad things which one has to adapt and that could lead to a stress reaction. For an example, the death of a loved one. 
         Then there is the very common one, 'Fight-or-flight response', the bodies stress reaction that includes an increase of heart rate, respiration, blood pressure, and serum cholesterol.  
   Then you have, 'General Adaption Syndrome', which contains the three stages of stress reaction, described by Hans selye, As seen as below...

1. Alarm phase: The person becomes aware of the stressor/threat and, as a result, physiological arousal occurs (increased heart rate, muscle tension, increased blood pressure, etc).
2. Resistant phase: The person attempts to respond to the stressor/threat.
3. Exhaustion phase: Long-term exposure and response to the stressor/ threat result in the depletion of adaptation energy.

Theories

Life- Events Theory


Stress is a condition or feeling experienced when a person perceives that "demands exceed the personal and social resources the individual is able to mobilize." In less formal terms, we feel stressed when we feel that "things are out of control."
Our ability to cope with the demands upon us is key to our experience of stress. For example, starting a new job might be a wholly exciting experience if everything else in your life is stable and positive. But if you start a new job when you've just moved into a new house, or your partner is ill, or you're experiencing money problems, you might find it very hard to cope.
How much of this does it take to push you "over the edge"? Not all unusual events are equally hard to deal with. For example, compare the stress of divorce with that of a change in responsibilities at work. Because of this, you need to be able to rate and measure your total stress score appropriately.
The Social Readjustment Rating Scale (SRRS), more commonly known as the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, was created to do just that. This tool helps us measure the stress load we carry, and think about what we should do about it.

The Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale

In 1967, psychiatrists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe decided to study whether or not stress contributes to illness. They surveyed more than 5,000 medical patients and asked them to say whether they had experience any of a series of 43 life events in the previous two years.
Each event, called a Life Change Unit (LCU), had a different "weight" for stress. The more events the patient added up, the higher the score. The higher the score, and the larger the weight of each event, the more likely the patient was to become ill.

The Stress Scale

To score your stress levels, simply check the box in the right hand column next to all the events that have happened to you in the last year. Your score will automatically update.
This table is taken from "The Social Readjustment Rating Scale", Thomas H. Holmes and Richard H. Rahe, Journal of Psychosomatic Research, Volume 11, Issue 2, August 1967, Pages 213-218, Copyright © 1967 Published by Elsevier Science Inc. All rights reserved. Permission to reproduce granted by the publisher.
This scale must not be used in any way to cause harm to an individual's professional career.
Life Event Value Check if this applies
1 Death of spouse 100
2 Divorce 73
3 Marital separation 65
4 Jail term 63
5 Death of close family member 63
6 Personal injury or illness 53
7 Marriage 50
8 Fired at work 47
9 Marital reconciliation 45
10 Retirement 45
11 Change in health of family member 44
12 Pregnancy 40
13 Sex difficulties 39
14 Gain of new family member 39
15 Business readjustment 39
16 Change in financial state 38
17 Death of close friend 37
18 Change to a different line of work 36
19 Change in number of arguments with spouse 35
20 A large mortgage or loan 31
21 Foreclosure of mortgage or loan 30
22 Change in responsibilities at work 29
23 Son or daughter leaving home 29
24 Trouble with in-laws 29
25 Outstanding personal achievement 28
26 Spouse begins or stops work 26
27 Begin or end school/college 26
28 Change in living conditions 25
29 Revision of personal habits 24
30 Trouble with boss 23
31 Change in work hours or conditions 20
32 Change in residence 20
33 Change in school/college 20
34 Change in recreation 19
35 Change in church activities 19
36 Change in social activities 18
37 A moderate loan or mortgage 17
38 Change in sleeping habits 16
39 Change in number of family get-togethers 15
40 Change in eating habits 15
41 Vacation 13
42 Christmas 12
43 Minor violations of the law 11
Your Total
Note: If you experienced the same event more than once, then to gain a more accurate total, add the score again for each extra occurrence of the event.

Score Interpretation

Score Comment
300+ You have a high or very high risk of becoming ill in the near future.
150-299 You have a moderate to high chance of becoming ill in the near future.
<150 You have only a low to moderate chance of becoming ill in the near future.

What You Can Do About This

If you find that you are at a moderate or high level of risk, then an obvious first thing to do is to try to avoid future life crises.
While this is clearly easier said than done, you can usually avoid moving house, for example, close to when you retire, or when one of your children goes off to college; you can learn conflict resolution skills to minimize conflict with other people; you can avoid taking on new obligations or engaging with new programs of study; and you can take things easy, and look after yourself.



 Hardiness Theory

The hardiness theory of stress underscores that individuals react to stress differently. Suzanne C. Kobasa et al. (1985) believes that hardiness, that is, perceiving stressful life events as challenges than threats, serve as buffer to stress. For example, one person may perceive of being fired from job as a major stressful problem, while another may see it as an opportunity to get a vacation and find better pastures. This theory, therefore, adds a third element in the stimulus-response interaction – the perceptive buffer – besides stressors and stress reactivity.


Social Support Theory
The social support theory of stress underscores that besides the perceptive buffer, stressed individuals can turn to available social support systems and resources to reduce the impact of stressors and avoid being stressed. J.C. Overholser, W.H. Norman and I.W. Miller (1990) believe that stress occurs only when social support systems and resources are not enough to dissolve the threat of stressors. For example, only those students who are not ready in their class experience stress over a pop quiz, or that scholars are stressed more over an average grade than non-scholars.
 

 Statistics


How Americans Experience stress
Following are the most causes of stress in our society along with the effects of stressors. 
Which ones impact you the most?
What causes Stress?
Money: 81%
The economy: 80%
Family Health problems: 67%
Family Responsibilities: 64%
Housing costs: 62%
relationships: 62%
Personal health concerns: 61%
job stability: 56%
Personal Safety: 48%

What are the effects of stress?

Genral Effects:
Irritability or anger: 60%
fatigue: 53%
Lying awake at night:52%
Physical Effects:
Headache: 47%
Upset Stomach: 35%
Muscular tension: 34%
Change in sex drive: 19%
Teeth grinding: 17%
tightness in chest: 16%
feeling dizzy: 15%
change in menstrual cycle: 10%
Erectile dysfunction: 10%

Psychological effects: 
Lack of interest/motivation: 49%
Feeling nervous or anxious: 49%
Feeling depressed or sad: 48%
Feeling like crying: 40%


Nutrition Vs Stress

 First off we know that certain food substances can produce a stress like response, that other provided by foods can be depleated by stress and that certain stress related illness can be exacerbated by dietry habits. We also know that feelings of stress can lead to poor nutritional habits. People who have low self esteem in particular, those who feel badly about their physical selves-may take darastic measures to imporve their bodies some of these measeures lead to anorexia nervosa and bulimia and cause stress in and out of themselves.
Anorexia Nervosa- An eating disorder in which a person takes in so few calories as to potentially sttarve him or herself.
Bulimia- An eating disorder characterized by binge eating followed by purging food such as including vomiting or ingesting a laxative
Recognize that they sometimes result when a person feels distressed about his or her body.

Nutrition is very important, and to be nutritionally healthy, you must have a balanced diet. Ingesting too much or too little of particular nutrients can lead to illness that in and of themselves can cause a great deal of stress.

Here is a picture of the food Pyramid...



Also, here is a picture of your BMI table (Body Mass Index). This shows you the healthy weight you should be at. Use it as if it were a multiplication table. Being overweight or underweight is a very common stressor.









Behavorial Principles of weight loss that you should follow.
 

1. Stimulus control
        
    A. Shopping
1. shop for food after eating
2.shop from a list
3.avoid ready-to-eat foods
4. Don't carry more cash than needed for items on shopping list. 

    B. Plans
1. Plan to limit food intake
2. subsitute exercise for snacking
3. Eat meals and snack at schduled times
4. Don't accept food offered by others

    C. Plans
1. Store food out of sight
2. Eat all food in the same place
3. Remove food from inappropriate areas in the house.
4. Keep serving dishes off of the table
5. Use smaller dishes and utensils
6. Avoid being the food server
7.Leave the table immediately immediately after eating.
8.Don't save leftovers

      D. Holidays and parties
1.  Drink fewer alcoholic beverages
2. Plan eating habits before parties
3. Eat a low-calorie snack before parties
4. Practice polite ways to decline food
5.  Don't get discouraged by an occasional setback.


2. Eating Behavior

 1. Put fork down between mouthfuls
 2. Chew thoroughly  before swallowing
 3. Prepare foods one portion at a time
 4. Leave some food on the plate
 5. Pause in the middle of the meal
 6. Don't get discouraged by an occasional setback

3. Reward

1. Solicit help from family and friends
2. Help family and friends provide this help in the form of praise and material rewards
3. Utilize self-monitoring records as basis for rewards
4. Plan specific rewards for specific behaviors (Behavioral contracts).
 
4. Self Monitoring
(Keep diet diary that includes)
1. Time and place of eating
2. Type and amount of food
3. Who is present/how you feel.


5. Nutrition education
1. Use diet diary to identify problem areas
2. Make small changes that you can continue
3. Learn nutritional values of foods
4. Decrease fat intake; increase complex carbohydrates



6. Physical Activity

    A. Routine Activity
1. Increase routine activity
2. Increase us of stairs
3. Keep a record of distance walked each day

      B. Exercise
1. Begin a very mild exercise program
2. Keep a record of daily exercise
3. Increase the exercise very gradually


7. Cognitive Restructuring 

1. Avoid setting unreasonable goals
2. Think about progress, not shortcomings
3. Avoid imperatives such as "always" and "never"
4. Counter negative thoughts with rational statements
5. Set weight goals


Noise Vs Stress 

Anyone whom has roomed with a noisy person, worked in a noisy office, or tried to study with a party going on in the next room can attest to the effect of noise on ones level of stress. Noise can raise blood sugar, increase heart rate, and lead to muscle tension. Noise has been found to be related to job dissatisfaction and result in irritation and anxiety. Noise can result in sleep disturbance, headaches, and hypertension. Most disturbing is noise that constantly changes in pitch, intensity, or frequency. We may become used to more common and stable noise and almost ignore it. People who live near airports, for example, seem not to hear the air planes after a while. However, just because you have become accustomed to a noise or are able to tune it out doesn't mean you are not being affected by it. Noise is measured in decibles. At 85 decibels, stress responses usually develop, and prolonged exposure to sound above 90 decibels can result in hearing damage. Of course, depending on ones level of concentration and the task being performed, even low levels of noise can be bothersome. To reduce noise level, you can...
1. Use cotton or ear plugs if your job requires exposure to loud noises.
2. Sit as far away from the performers at loud rock, symphony, or band concerts.
3. Learn to enjoy music at home at a moderate volume
4. Put drapes over the windows to reduce street noise
5. Choose acoustical tile for ceilings and walls when building a house or adding a room  
6.Use carpeting or select an apartment with carpeting in all rooms adjacent to other units
7. Keep noise-making appliances away from bedrooms, den and living room.
8. Select home sites or apartments away from truck routes, airports, business, and industrial areas. 
 
 
How Loud Is Too Loud?
 

 
Decibels                  Common Sounds

150                                                    Firecracker
120                                                 Ambulance Siren
110                                             Chainsaw, rock concert
105                                  Personal stereo systems at maximum level
100                                              Wood shop, snowmobile
95                                                       motorcycle
90                                                      power mower
85                                                 Heavy city traffic
60                                              Normal Conversation
40                                             Refrigerator humming
30                                                   Whispered voice
 
 
  Well everyone that's it for now, I will post more about stress as soon as possible. Hope this has helped!!!

Yours truly,
Krista Clingenpeel

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Most popular life quotes.


My favorite...






"Change your thoughts and you change your world."
-Norman Vincent Peale


"I am only one, but I AM one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do."
-Edward Everett Hale

"Happiness is not in our circumstances, but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow or feel, like the heat of fire. Happiness is something we are."
-John B. Sheerin




"Making changes in your life is never an easy task. The key, however, is not to get caught up in the distance you have to go to get to where you want to be. Nor should you despair over the amount of control you have over your circumstances. Progress is made in the small, intentional steps, and chances are, you have more power than you think. By focusing on little steps you can have more power than you think. By focusing on little steps you can take every day, the progress you make will motivate you to continue your journey, and eventually, you can go wherever you want to go. The important thing is simply to begin."
-Stephen Cheriske


"All of life is a journey; which paths we take, what we look back on, and what we look forward to is up to us. We determine our destination, what kind of road we will take to get there, and how happy we are when we get there."
-From a Little Book of Happiness


"Just for today, no matter where I am going, or what I am doing, or who I am doing it with, it is my intention to focus on the positive."
-Lucy MacDonald





"Keep yourself clean and bright;you are the window through which you see the whole world."
-Anonymous


"Always be a first rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of somebody else."
-Anonymous


"People are just about as happy as they make up their mind to be!"
-Abe Lincoln 




"So often in our quest to be more popular and to be part of the 'in-group', we loose sight of things that are far more important."
-Anonymous


"One kind word can warm three winter months"
-Anonymous


"Differences create the challenges in life that open the door to discovery."
-Anonymous




"When your falling, dive!"
-Joseph Campbell


"Sister, pain is part of life. By accepting it, it's intensity is reduced. Do not resist it. Resistance to pain brings tension and anxiety, anxiety leads to fear. Fear of pain is worse than pain itself. This pain will pass."
-Satish Kumar


"Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him."
-Aldous Huxley






"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we create our world."
-Buddha


"Things do not change, we change."
-Henry David Thoreau


"Mans mind stretched to a new idea never goes back to its original dimensions."
-Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.





"The best is yet to come!"
-Frank Sinatra


"Happiness is a choice, not just a matter of genes or good luck."
-Anonymous


"See it as it is and see it as better than it is."
-Anonymous




"The voyage of true discovery lies not in seeking new landscapes, but in seeing with new eyes."
-Marcel Proust


"Do not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate life."
-Bertolt Brecht




Well everybody, that is it for now. I will keep updating as soon as I gather more. Resources I used were from both the book's The Bounce Back Book by Karen Salmansohn and the wonderful book The 7 Habits of Highly effective Teens by Sean Covey. Rest was from from the Google search engine. 
I really hope you enjoyed them! 

If you have any favorite quotes of yours, please feel free to share!

The Great Discovery!



Discovering your core values...



  1. Think of a person who made a positive difference in your life. What qualities does that person have that you would like to develop?
  2. Imagine 20 years from now-you are surrounded by the most important people in your life. Who are they and what are you doing?
  3. If a steal beam (6 inches wide) were placed across two skyscrapers, for what would you be willing to cross? A thousand dollars? A million? Your pet? Your brother? Fame? Think carefully...
  4. If you could spend one day in a great library studying anything you wanted, what would you study?
  5. List 10 things you love to do. It could be singing, dancing, looking at magazines, drawing, reading, daydreaming...anything you absolutely love to do!
  6. Describe a time when you were deeply inspired.
  7. Five years from now, your local paper does a story about you and they want to interview three people-a parent, a brother, or sister, and a friend. What would you want them to say about you?
  8. Think of something that represents you...a rose, an animal...why does it represent you?
  9. If you could spend an hour with any person who ever lived, who would that be? Why that person? What would you ask?
  10. Everyone has one or more talents. Which of the ones below are you good at? Or write down ones that are not listed.
Good with numbers   Good with words   Creative thinking   Athletics   Making things happen   Trivia   Mechanical   Artistic   Working well with people   Memorizing things   Building things   Decision making   Accepting others   Predicting what will happen   Speaking   Writing   Dancing   Listening   singing   Humorous   Sharing   Music   Sensing needs



Some of these questions require a lot of thinking. However, By the end of each one you answer, you should have learned more about yourself.
Hope you have fun!





Yours truly,
Krista Clingenpeel




Paradigms







"I'm too stupid to make friends."

"I'm fat and ugly. Nobody will ever wan't to be my friend."

"I'm a nobody."

“What you must understand about me is that I’m a deeply unhappy person.”


"I'm useless..."

"...I'm a looser."






Enough of that.


...If you are one of those whom constantly beat them selves with false words such as these, I think It's time to grasp control within your life, increase your self confidence, be happy, and find balance between school, work, friends, and everything else!

Life can be confusing and quite the vortex. Have no fear, friend. This blog will help you in many ways possible. If you let it, that is.

So, if you are one of those people who do beat themselves up with negativity, Be prepared for a 'paradigm' shift!

Or in other words...


Seeing things from this point of view....

                                                            




To this point of view!


Paradigm [pair-a-dimes]: The way you see something, your point of view, frame or reference, belief, etc...

Paradigms are a lot like glasses. When you have incomplete paradigms about yourself or life in general, it's like wearing glasses with the wrong prescription. That lens affects how you see everything else. 
As a result: what you see is what you get.

Here are some examples...
If you believe your dumb that very belief will make you dumb. 
If you believe your sister is dumb, you'll look for evidence to support your belief, find it, and she will remain dumb in your eyes.
If you believe your a looser that very belief will make you a looser.
If you believe your ugly, fat and stupid, those very beliefs will make you ugly, fat and stupid.
If you believe your useless that very belief will make you useless.
On the other hand, 
If you believe you're smart, that belief will cast a rosy hue on everything you do!

You know what I mean?


So, stop right now and consider this question:
Are your paradigms of yourself helping or hindering you?



So what I'm asking you to do is, put on a new pair of glasses. Instead of saying, "I'm ugly", why not say "I'm beautiful", or "I'm handsome". 

Starting now, begin giving yourself positive compliments.

Here is a list of positives for you :)


You can do it!

Yours Truly,
Krista Clingenpeel